The short version for now until I write up a longer one: I was using OkCupid because as a farmer and an introvert, I wasn’t going to meet a lot of potential dates during everyday life. During the winter/spring of 2014 I was going on some “first dates” with a couple guys, but nothing special was happening. Only with one man did I get a chance to relax and enjoy the dates because he could carry an intelligent conversation and make me laugh, but he took forever to respond to online messages or texts, so I was sure he wasn’t interested in me, and with how busy he was with work and friends, I was pretty sure he wasn’t serious looking then anyway.
